For most of your life, you looked to society, your peers, and family to determine who to be and what to do. You achieved success with spectacular moments of pride and happiness, but they were fleeting. It wasn’t untill you stopped trying to figure out what to be and instead, figured out who you were that you arrived at the intersection of great success, true happiness, and inner peace.
This path of self-discovery is a very personal journey. You can start with sobriety through the some Steps, which prioritize honesty, accountability, and serving others.
Moving the center of gravity inside, facing yourself, your past, and your fears, and making your life about something greater than yourself doesn’t seem like the obvious answer to success. But in your experience, it’s the only answer.
The big problem with many people is they live based on what society or their parents tell them to do. Ultimately, success is defined by what not only makes you happy but also by what fulfills you. Many people associate success with making more money, but that’s not always true.
If you're young or single, it's much easier to try anything you've ever slightly been inclined to do. If you're married with kids or getting older, it gets harder to try everything. But it's never too late. If you’re going to take a chance and do something you've always dreamed of, work extra hard at having reserves in place for you and your family.
Before you try to do those things you've always wanted but were too scared to try, ask yourself, "What's the worst that could happen?" When you answer it logically, you'll realize your fears aren't that scary at all.
Answering the question, “Why are you here?”, is the solution to your life. Unfortunately, only you can find the answer. Fortunately, when you do, everything else falls into place. As Mark Twain said, “The two most important days of your life are the day you are born, and the day you find out why.”
When you find what you love and do it, you no longer feel perturbed. When you discover why you’re here, you’re inspired to fulfill it. The quality of your life is based on the quality of your questions, so ask yourself: “If you knew you couldn’t fail, what would you love to do with your life?” Don’t worry about the fears and doubts, just answer the question. An inner voice may ask, “What’s your gift to the world?” Don’t stop until you find the answer.
Know what your values are and what makes you tick—not just what looks cool. Although money and success are important in your life, you need growth, adventure, and contribution for fulfillment.There’s no single or right way to determine your values, but self-awareness is where you must start to understand how to live a fulfilled life, on your terms.
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